I think being straight up about your feelings for someone or if something bothers you, you should really tell/ask them exactly what you wanna know even if the answer isn't something you wanna hear.
You either ARE or NOT with that person. You can't just be all lovey dovey and kiss and such if you don't have feelings for them and you don't wanna be together. Like you're leading them on! Or if you're the person who is confused about what you and another person you really like are; you need to DTR. "Define the relationship" (omg awkward quote) because, you're just wasting your time on somebody who knows they have the availability to toss your heart around like dice. I don't know if it's just me but, the reason why I say to never kiss anyone you're not with that you DO have feelings for is because, once you kiss them you just think "Oh he/she's mine!" when really nothing is official yet. And maybe it's just a fling for them?
If they're confused too then they aren't sure what they want; If they really wanted to be with you it wouldn't be considered it would a right away yes.
And when you do get your answer make sure it's a yes or no, people tend to change the meaning of a "I don't know" to "Oh my gerrrrrsh he/she Luvs me! :-)))))"
And to me there is no such thing as "Taking a break" or "It's complicated" either you're in a relationship or not. Don't waste your time on someone who is really convincing or they aren't afraid of losing you if that's what they result to for anything.
Don't beat around the bush because, you might be believing in something that really isn't there at all. & there is no such thing as fairy tales.
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